(Don't Fear) the Reaper
Blue Oyster Cult
Agents of Fortune, ©1976
Donald ( Buck Dharma ) Roeser
Songs that deal with death, despair,
depression and suicide are often misinterpreted and misunderstood. Rumored to
be about suicide, (Don't Fear) The Reaper is actually about the eternal
power of love and learning to accept death. Songwriter Buck Dharma explained, I felt that I had just achieved some kind of
resonance with the psychology of people when I came up with that, I was
actually kind of appalled when I first realized that some people were seeing it
as an advertisement for suicide or something that was not my intention at all.
It is, like, not to be afraid of it (as opposed to actively bring it about).
It's basically a love song where the love transcends the actual physical
existence of the partners.
Singer/Songwriter Don McLean wrote two songs inspired by the deaths of
well known artists. “
Another "suicide" song, Metallica's
Fade to Black, was written after the band had experienced a series of
mishaps and set backs culminating in the theft of specially made musical
equipment. The anguish and despair expressed in this song is quite powerful , I have lost the will to live Simply nothing
more to give There is nothing more for me Need the end to set me free.
Despondent fans have written letters to the group over the years to let the
band know that this song actually made them feel better and they were able to
get through a difficult time knowing that others have fealt the same way.
Blink -182's Adam's Song and Ozzy
Osbourne's Suicide Solution are two songs that have been connected to or
associated with specific suicides. ( additional commentary and details
referenced below ) Ozzy has explained that he wrote the song soon after the
death of Bon Scott, lead singer the group AC/DC. Scott died of hypothermia
after consuming very large quantities of alcohol. Hence, the word
"solution" in the title of this song refers to a mixture or liquid,
not an answer to a problem.
People who are depressed and despondent may
be drawn to a particular song because it expresses what they are already
feeling inside. Kurt Cobain's suicide note concludes with the statement It's better to burn out, than to fade away
which is a line from Neil Young's tribute song My My, Hey Hey. Deeply
saddened and troubled by Cobain's tragic use of his lyrics, Young stated in a
1995 New Music Express article, ...Obviously
his interpretation should not be taken to mean there's only two ways to go and
one of them is death. Responding to Cobain's death, Neil Young recorded the
album Sleeps With Angels. Discussing the album in a 1995 Mojo
Magazine interview Young stated, Sleeps
With Angels has a lot of overtones to it, from different situations that were
described in it. A lot of sad scenes...
The band Good Charlotte wrote the inspirational
song Hold On in 2003 after the loss
of several close friends to suicide. ( see additional commentary referenced
below ) The heart wrenching music video for this song includes interview clips
with people who have lost friends and family to suicide and people who have
survived suicide attempts.
Judy Collins wrote the song Wings of
Angels in memory of her son Clark who committed suicide in 1993. Collins
discussed the stigma associated with suicide in a Beliefnet interview, I think suicide is sort of like cancer was
50 years ago. People don't want to talk about it, they don't want to know about
it. People are frightened of it, and they don't understand, when actually these
issues are medically treatable...For many centuries, suicides were treated like
criminals by the society. That is part of the terrible legacy that has come
down into society's method of handling suicide recovery. Now we have to fight
off the demons that have been hanging around suicide for centuries.
Jumper by the group Third Eye Blind is another song that
deals with the issue of suicide. The group co-hosts an In the Mix ( see
link below) program, Depression: On the
Edge during which they share their own experiences as expressed in the
song. Singer Stephan Jenkins explains, ...Jumper's really about understanding. Everyone carries demons around, they carry
some sort of scar around. The message of Jumper
is that there comes a time when you have to put the past away. And Kevin
Cadogan reveals, I know what it feels
like to wake up and want to go right back to bed. So anyone who's feeling that
way now, I'm down with you. You've got to have faith that it will end, you
know.
The 2004 song Sign Off, by the group Sugarcult also deals with depression,
despair and thoughts of suicide…if
the medication works could i be the way i was? in control...nobody can save me
nobody can save me nobody can say what i'll do if i'm alone…The group
Sugarcult participates in the Take Action Tour (see link below) to raise
awareness and educate youth about depression and suicide. Sugarcult songwriter
and vocalist Tim Pagnotta has explained that the band receives e-mails from ‘kids who said they were going
to kill themselves and then got our record and could relate to the
lyrics’ and reconsidered. Sugarcult guitarist Marko 72 has also
commented,
We feel like our fans have given us a
career, so we'd like to give something back - not just a show, but a
green light to talk about their feelings, and the understanding that
mental illness is not a flaw - it's just something that people have.
The 2006 song Hate Me by Blue October offers an up close look at depression
through the personal experience of lead singer, Justin Furstenfeld. The song
begins with a real voicemail from Furstenfeld’s mother that was left on
his answering machine during a time he was secluded and struggling with
depression. Furstenfeld sings, …There’s
a burning in my pride a nervous bleeding in my brain An ounce of peace is all I
want for you, Will you never call again? The singer takes responsibility
for past mistakes while working to heal and reconcile strained relationships
with this musical apology. Furstenfeld explains, …I had to get it off my chest and apologize to the people in my
family and in relationships to realize what I was doing to the people that
surround me…I realized that you can’t just cut people out of your
life, because it’s not about you all the time.
Another 2006 song How to Save a Life by The Fray, was inspired by actual events
involving a troubled teenager at a Christian halfway house. Lead singer Isaac
Slade who counseled this youth explained in a 2006 interview, This kid had a thousand opportunities to get
into trouble and he got into all of them, It was heartbreaking to see all the sacrifice that went into trying to
save this kid. A lot of it came out of love...The pain, heartache and
frustration of this life and death struggle is revealed in the lyrics of the
song, Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend Somewhere along in the
bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to
save a life...Fortunately, this
story had a happy ending as Slade reveals in the interview that the teenager
did begin to take steps to improve his life.
Friends and family play an important role
when it comes to helping others cope with depression. It is also important to
monitor the music a young person listens to as it often reveals and reflects
their current mood and state of mind. In some cases music can serve as an early
warning system, affording friends and family the time and opportunity to
intervene before a tragedy does occur.
Source(s):
Buck Dharma Interview by James Lien, College
Music Journal, November 6, 1995.
Judy Collins Interview by Rebecca
Phillips, Beliefnet.
"Depression: On The Edge" In
The Mix. Corporation for Public Broadcasting.
Don McLean’s American Pie /
Vincent (Starry Starry Night) Don
McLeanOnline.”
“Rockers' Repertoire Stresses Prevention of Teen
Suicide” Psychiatric News March 18, 2005
Volume 40 Number 6 © 2005 American Psychiatric
Association
“Cockroaches, Porn, Voices Fill Blue October Singer’s
Brain” MTV
News 04.11.2006
“Into the Fray” By Stan Friedman Christian
Music Today 7/17/06
Music
and Lyric Resources:
Blue
Oyster Cult Official Web Site
Referenced
and Related Works:
Don McLean’s “Vincent ( Starry Starry Night )”
Dylan Thomas's "Do Not Go Gentle"
Alfred, Lord Tennyson's "Charge of the Light Brigade"
Walt Whitman's "To One Shortly To Die"
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow's, "A Psalm of Life"
William Shakespeare's, "Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?"
Edwin Arlington Robinson's "Richard Corey"
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Quotes on Death and Dying
Ozzy Osbourne "Suicide Solution" Commentary
Good Charlotte "Hold On" Commentary
Blink-182 "Adam's Song" Commentary
Blue
October “Hate Me” Commentary
Neil Young discusses "Sleeps With Angels"
“Sonnet
XC” / “Hate Me” / “Mother O’ Mine”
“Legend
of The Starfish” / “How To Save A Life”
Take Action! ( external page
)
Elisabeth Kubler Ross ( external page )
Preventing
Teen Suicide ( external page )
Good Charlotte Confronts Suicide
With New Video ( external page )
Teenage
Depression & Suicide Prevention Resources ( external page )
Judy Collins: Voice of a
Century - NOW with Bill Moyers (
external page )
Living Matters ( external
page )
In the Mix - Depression: On The Edge ( external page )
American
Foundation for Suicide Prevention ( external page )
National Hopeline Network ( external page )
National Youth Violence
Prevention Resource Center ( external
page )
SAVE
- Suicide Awareness Voices of Education ( external page )
Go Ask Alice! - Columbia
University's Health Q & A Internet Service ( external page )
howtosavealife.com ( external page )
Save A Life Campaign ( external page )
YouTube –
“American Pie” (
external page )
YouTube –
“American Pie” (
external page )
YouTube – “Fade
To Black” ( external page )
YouTube –
“Adam’s Song” (
external page )
YouTube – “My My
Hey Hey” ( external page )
YouTube –
“Jumper” ( external page
)
YouTube
– “Sign Off” (
external page )
YouTube – “Hold
On” ( external page )
YouTube
– “Hate Me” (
external page )
YouTube
– “How To Save A Life” ( version #2 ) ( external page )
YouTube – “How To
Save A Life” ( Grey’s Anatomy )
( external page )